Kait Mae

I’ve been thinking about this topic for a while now.  A couple of friends of mine have already gotten engaged, and it’s set me off on thinking about relationships.  And thinking about relationships in general made me think about what I want in a relationship.  So here’s a list of things that would make the perfect relationship to me.

• Kill the spiders for me
• Share your fries and chicken nuggets with me
• Be the big spoon
• Let me be the big spoon sometimes
• Cuddle me when I want to cuddle
• Hold my hand in public
• Touch me unconsciously, draw circles on my hands with your thumb
• Hug me tight when I’m crying
• Hug me tight when I’m not
• Let me take funny pictures of you on Snapchat
• Let me take funny selfies
• Kiss my forehead
• Make me laugh when I’m not in a laughing mood
• Play with my hair
• Let me play with your hair
• Hold me tight when I have nightmares
• Let me rest my head on your shoulder when I nap
• Sing with me in the car, no matter how terrible we sound
• Pillow fights
• Take me stargazing
• Let me read out loud to you
• Stick with me through bad periods of depression
• Random water gun fights
• Text me good night/good morning
• Kiss my nose
• Hug me from behind
• Be a feminist
• Dance with me
• Give me your hoodies
• Let me hog the blankets when I’m freezing
• Be my best friend
• Grow together and apart
• Encourage me to be the best I can be

I know this seems like a long list, and I’ll admit it is.  But, it’s just things that would make a relationship perfect to me, and it’s small things.  Honestly, I could easily forget about a few of these things and be happy.  This was just what came off the top of my head when I was thinking about this post.

I’m going to write another post related to this one soon.  It’ll be up around Valentine’s Day just because I feel like that’s the right time to post it.