Kait Mae

The LGBTQ+ community is so vast, but one specific sexuality I don’t hear enough about is asexuality. It’s one that I feel encompasses who I am at my core, so of course I’d want to see others that feel the same as I do represented on screen and in books. So, as a way to bring a little more of me to my blog, and to the world for the first time, here’s a list of books with asexual representation.

‘What We Devour’ by Linsey Miller

Lorena is a morally grey heroine in a dark fantasy world where nobles feed off power and monsters lurk in the shadows. When she’s taken to court to help stop a horrifying magical disaster, she must tap into an ancient, forbidden power to survive—and maybe change the system from within.

Lorena is canonically asexual, and the narrative never sidelines or erases this. Her identity isn’t the conflict—it’s simply part of who she is. It was my first foray into asexual representation in books – and media, really. Before you dive in, please check out the trigger warnings.

‘Elatsoe’ by Darcie Little Badger

In an alternate America where magic is real and ancestral spirits walk among us, Elatsoe “Ellie” is a Lipan Apache teen who can raise the dead. When her cousin dies under mysterious circumstances, she uses her gifts—and the help of her ghost dog—to solve the mystery.

Ellie is asexual, and her identity is woven seamlessly into the narrative without becoming the focus. The story shines with rich culture, family, and gentle humor, making it a great read for those who want a thoughtful, layered mystery with ace representation and Indigenous storytelling.

‘The Lady’s Guide to Petticoats and Piracy’ by Mackenzi Lee

In this novel, Felicity Montague dreams of becoming a doctor in a world that doesn’t want women in medicine. To pursue her ambitions, she finds herself in the middle of pirates, secrets, and a conspiracy involving a former best friend and an ambitious woman.

Felicity’s journey includes a clear depiction of her asexuality and aromanticism, exploring how she navigates relationships and expectations. It’s a swashbuckling historical adventure with wit and heart, perfect for anyone craving strong, intelligent heroines and nuanced ace representation in period fiction.

Bonus points: The first in this series (that you don’t necessarily have to read in order) is an M/M romance, The Gentleman’s Guide to Vice and Virtue.

‘Every Heart a Doorway’ by Seanan McGuire

In a home for wayward children who’ve returned from magical worlds, Eleanor West offers a safe haven for those who no longer belong in our world. Among them is Nancy, who has just come back from a land of stillness and death, and who’s struggling to readjust to life—and survive a string of murders in the house.

Nancy is asexual, and her identity is not only stated outright but accepted without question by those around her. This novella (the first in the Wayward Children series) uses fantasy as a metaphor for identity and belonging, making it a thoughtful and lyrical read for anyone who’s ever felt out of place.

‘Let’s Talk About Love’ by Claire Kann

Alice is a Black biromantic asexual college student whose girlfriend just broke up with her after she came out. Heartbroken but determined to move forward, she throws herself into her job at a library—where she meets a charming coworker who challenges her carefully controlled world.

This book is light and funny while still digging into deeper themes of identity, boundaries, and self-acceptance. I love that it explores differing sexuality and romantic spectrums. It’s something that we don’t talk about often, and I hope this helps you start the conversation if this fits you, too.

‘Loveless’ by Alice Oseman

Georgia has never been in love, never kissed anyone, and she’s starting to wonder if something’s wrong with her. As she begins university, she embarks on a journey of self-discovery, friendship, and coming to terms with being aroace (aromantic and asexual), even when it challenges everything she thought she wanted.

Oseman’s portrayal of ace and aro identities is raw, compassionate, and deeply personal. Loveless is about finding love in friendship, self-worth, and chosen family, making it perfect for readers who want a moving, realistic look at ace experiences in a world that often centers romance.

‘Beyond the Black Door’ by A.M. Strickland

Kamai has always seen souls—black doors that appear behind people, locked and full of secrets. She’s never dared open one, until a tragedy pushes her to unlock the mysterious door in her own home. What she finds is a dark, seductive world and a powerful being who may not be trustworthy… but may hold the answers Kamai desperately needs.

Kamai is asexual, and her orientation is addressed explicitly and respectfully within the story, especially as she navigates complex emotional and sensual experiences without romantic or sexual attraction. For readers who love dark fantasy with identity-driven narratives and queer gothic vibes, this one is a standout.

‘Wren Martin Ruins It All’ by Amanda DeWitt

Wren Martin has a sharp tongue, a quick mind, and zero patience for people. After a snarky joke goes too far, he ends up in mandatory group therapy—and accidentally befriends his sunshiney academic rival, Mateo. What starts as a begrudging connection soon becomes something more meaningful, though Wren is still figuring out what that means for him.

Wren is asexual, and the story explores this with nuance, humor, and emotional honesty. It’s a contemporary YA that centers personal growth and friendship, with a subtle slow-burn romance that respects boundaries. If you want messy, lovable characters and ace rep that feels real and grounded, this one’s for you.

‘I Want to be a Wall, Vol. 1’ by Honami Shirono

Yuriko is an asexual woman who marries her gay best friend, Gakurouta, in a marriage of companionship and mutual understanding. They both love each other deeply—just not romantically or sexually. While Gakurouta is obsessed with yaoi manga, Yuriko loves seeing love stories from a distance, content in their unique arrangement.

This manga, translated by Emma Schumacker, is a gentle, heartwarming exploration of queerplatonic partnership and asexuality in a way that’s rarely seen, especially in the romance-obsessed genre of manga. It’s a beautiful example of how love takes many forms, and it’s perfect for readers craving cozy, slice-of-life stories with ace and queer rep.

‘The Dragon of Ynys’ by Minerva Cerridwen

When a baker’s husband goes missing, Sir Violet, a gentle knight, sets out to find him—joined by a wise dragon named Snap. What unfolds is a cozy, low-stakes fairytale quest full of kindness, community, and quiet courage. It’s a short novella, but it packs in plenty of charm.

Sir Violet is openly asexual, and his identity is handled with warmth and ease, seamlessly woven into the whimsical tone of the story. For fans of sweet fantasy with found family, soft heroes, and inclusive storytelling, The Dragon of Ynys is an absolute delight.

‘Blank Spaces’ by Cass Lennox

When art gallery manager Vaughn meets Devon, an asexual man and aspiring artist, their unexpected connection challenges both of them to rethink what a relationship can be. Vaughn is used to casual flings, while Devon is navigating a world that doesn’t always understand his boundaries.

This is an adult romance that doesn’t shy away from the complexity of being ace in the dating world. It’s respectful, sexy (in a communication-first way), and emotionally grounded. For anyone looking for a mature, character-driven romance that doesn’t erase asexuality or push it to the sidelines, this one hits the mark.

‘Sawkill Girls’ by Claire Legrand

On the island of Sawkill Rock, girls keep disappearing. When new girl Marion arrives, she finds herself drawn into a horrifying mystery involving a monster that feeds on girls—and the strange power awakening in her and two others. It’s eerie, powerful, and laced with feminist rage.

One of the protagonists, Zoey, is asexual, and her identity is confirmed on-page. She’s fierce, loyal, and central to the story’s emotional core. Legrand doesn’t reduce her to her sexuality—she’s a hero in her own right. For readers who love dark, atmospheric YA horror with a focus on girlhood, strength, and queer identity, this is a must-read.

I hope you enjoy these novels as much as I do – or expect to – when you get around to reading them. And if I missed your favorite book with aspec representation, let me know! I want to read more. Even better, if you have a movie or TV show recommendation for aspec representation, I’m actively looking for some.